145 Questions for Couples That Are Always Worth Asking (2024)

2. Who’s your model for a good relationship?

3. How does being around my family make you feel?

4. What was your first kiss like?

5. What’s one thing we do together that helps you feel connected to me?

6. Do you believe in soulmates?

7. How about love at first sight?

8. Where do you like to be touched?

9. Where do you not like to be touched?

10. What helps you feel sexy or attractive?

11. What’s your biggest turn-on?

12. What’s your biggest turn-off?

13. What’s your favorite part of your body?

14. When you’re feeling anxious, how can I be supportive?

15. When you’re feeling stressed, how can I be supportive?

16. When you’re feeling sad or depressed, how can I be supportive?

17. In what ways do you feel like you’ve grown from or during this relationship?

18. In what ways do you think I’ve grown from or during this relationship?

19. When was a time I made you feel especially appreciated?

20. What types of gestures would help you feel even more appreciated?

21. How do you feel about the way that we argue?

22. How do you feel about the way we communicate?

23. Have you had your heart broken before?

24. What’s the very first thing you noticed about me?

25. What’s something you think we do really well as a couple?

26. How do you define infidelity?

27. What do you think are ourthink our biggest differences as people are?

28. What’s our biggest similarity?

29. Do you find it easy or hard to ask for help?

30. Are there any other ways I could support you that I’m not currently doing?

Relationship questions about hopes and values

1. For work, would you rather be an unquestionable expert at one thing or have the chance to explore a few different careers?

2. Do you believe in god?

3. Do your values differ in any way from the values you saw growing up?

4. Do you think you’ll want kids one day?

5. If yes, is there anything you want to have accomplished before becoming a parent?

6. What are your thoughts on adopting children versus having biological ones?

7. Who’s your model for growing old well?

8. How do you feel about marriage as an institution?

9. Would you rather have a job or a career?

10. What’s a personal goal you have that I may not know about?

11. When you’re older, what kind of impact do you hope you’ll have had on the world?

12. Do you think violence is ever justified?

13. Is there anything about the future that makes you anxious?

14. How important is living near family to you?

15. What do you hope your life looks like in five years?

16. What do you hope your life looks like in 50 years?

17. What do you want your funeral to look like one day?

18. If you want to get married, are you someone who wants a big wedding?